Leave This In 2019:
Not asking for help because you're afraid of people saying no
Doing everything yourself because you don't trust that other people will do it properly
Competing with other people who aren't in competition with you
Assuming that you will fail if you try
Keeping your thoughts to your yourself when they need to be shared with others (speak up)
Finding temporary fixes instead of long-term solutions
Avoidance
Complaining about things not going well, while not trying to improve things
Resisting going to see a therapist because you want to be able top do it on your own